Just Too Little Time

Starting this week I’m already 37 weeks pregnant, that means my baby is officially full term now. According to mybaby.com he can arrive at any day, yeay! But I hope he will wait for another week or two as my OB/GYN expect me to carry him inside me at least until I pass week 38.

I got my three months pregnancy leave permission letter yesterday, it will be effective starting Wednesday next week. Means I have about a week left to transfer my work to my coworker and starting today I will not accept any new task

Here’s what a 37 weeks baby looks like according to mybaby.com:

Congratulations — your baby is full term! This means that if your baby arrives now, his lungs should be fully mature and ready to adjust to life outside the womb, even though your due date is still three weeks away.

Your baby weighs 6 1/3 pounds and measures a bit over 19 inches, head to heel (like a stalk of Swiss chard). Many babies have a full head of hair at birth, with locks from 1/2 inch to 1 1/2 inches long. But don’t be surprised if your baby’s hair isn’t the same color as yours. Dark-haired couples are sometimes thrown for a loop when their children come out as blonds or redheads, and fair-haired couples have been surprised by Elvis look-alikes. And then, of course, some babies sport only peach fuzz.

Ramadan is over, today all Muslims in the world are celebrating Eid ul-Fitr or Indonesians call it Hari Lebaran. In Indonesia, this is the time when Muslims visit their family and friends to ask for forgiveness for any wrongs they have committed in the previous year. We will say, “Mohon Maaf Lahir Batin” which means “forgive me from the bottom of my heart/soul”.

My in laws are Muslims so we’ll be visiting their house today to wish Selamat Lebaran. We expect to eat ketupat there also. Ketupat is a type of rice dumpling, made from rice that has been wrapped in a woven palm leaf pouch which is then boiled. As the rice cooks, the grains expand to fill the pouch and the rice becomes compressed. Here ketupat is traditionally eaten during Eid, usually served with various vegetable and meat dishes. Most (if not all) of the accompanying dishes are cooked in spicy coconut milk.

Unopened cooked ketupat

Yesterday we had another appointment with my mom’s ophthalmologist. It was her second appointment after having lucentis injection for her AMD (Age-related Macular Degeneration) treatment last month. She took an OCT (Optical Coherence Tomography) test yesterday and the doctor seemed pleased after seeing the result. He said the abnormal blood vessel that blocked her central vision (macula) was significantly reduced.

This is her OCT result before treatment (notice the abnormal blood vessel in the white circle):

This one is her OCT result after treatment:

We have to wait another 4 weeks to see the maximum effectiveness of the treatment. After that he will see if she needs another injection.

AMD is a degenerative condition of the Retina in which the central portion of the Retina, called the Macula, is damaged as a result of the hardening of the small arteries supplying oxygen and nutrients to the Retinal tissue. It is reported as the leading cause of blindness in people over 50 years of age.

When my mom was diagnosed with AMD last month, her ophthalmologist offered two types of drugs for her treatment, lucentis and avastin. Lucentis costs Rp 11 million (US$ 1100) while avastin costs Rp 2 million (US$ 200). The big cost difference between two drugs made us think twice before we decided which type of injection we should choose. The doctor said, “If money is not the problem, use lucentis as it’s already world-wide approved for AMD treatment.” Even though many eye-doctor use avastin as cheaper alternative for AMD treatment, the drug was initially developed (and later approved by FDA) for colon cancer, not for AMD. But he also reminded us that it’s going to be a long run treatment, and he couldn’t tell how many times my mom need the injection. It will depend on the each injection result that will be evaluated every two months.
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